Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts

Friday, February 20, 2009

Psalm 32 - Break Time

We need a break. Not because we’re working too hard or because we think we deserve it, but because we need to take the time to stop and reflect on the goodness of God. We get so busy going, doing, and being that we forget to acknowledge, absorb, and appreciate.

King David knew the value of soaking it up. He soaked up every moment he had before God. He soaked up the victories. He soaked up the favor. And he soaked up the fact that he was forgiven.
“Then I acknowledged my sin to you and did not cover up my iniquity. I said, "I will confess my transgressions to the LORD " - and you forgave the guilt of my sin. Selah.” – Psalm 32:5

I love this word, “Selah”. It’s a pause in the writing. It’s a pause in the reading. It’s a pause to simply pause… and soak it up. “Selah” not only means to “pause” but it’s root means “to weigh”. I think that speaks for itself.

David had an amazing amount of confidence before God. While it’s refreshing to see his confidence in battle and leading, it’s surprising for me to see how much confidence he had in confession. I would imagine it came not from what he knew about himself, but more so from what he knew about God. Simply put, that if he acknowledged his sin in full disclosure, he would be forgiven. No matter how great the transgression.

There are some lessons to be found in there. I don’t always feel confident after a time of confession. Maybe we can all relate to that at times. And since God is the same yesterday, today, and forever, maybe when we fall short of full confidence in our confession, it’s because we aren’t offering full disclosure. God knows our hearts. I think we know them more than we like to admit, especially when we’re holding back.

Father, I want the confidence of David. But at times I lack the faith of David. At times I lack in fully believing in an unconditional love that should result in complete transparency with you. It makes absolutely no sense whatsoever to hold back, yet I have, and I do. Grow my faith. Thank you for your patience. Thank you for your faithfulness. Amen.

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Psalm 17 - Hey dad.



My boys are 6 and 10. My little girl is 8. The difference is remarkable. Not only in age and gender, but mostly in personality. And I love the differences. I love how I relate and wrestle with Gavin and Caleb and snuggle with Sydney Beth. But I love even more when, every now and then, Gavin and Caleb want to snuggle too. Mostly at bed time. Mostly through a request like, “Hey dad, will you scratch my back?”

It takes about 15 seconds for Caleb to fall asleep once I start. Gavin could somehow will himself to stay up all night if I’d keep scratching.

I love it when they run into the house after a bus ride home, slam open the front door, throw down their backpacks and offer a quick, “Hey dad”, as if we were just a couple of fellas working together at the factory. We’re buds. While there is respect, there is also a comfort, a trust, a love, and an unspoken confidence that exists between us.

And when they want something, they ask me for it. They know I can provide it, they know I love them and want my best for them, and they unconsciously cherish the fact that I cherish them. Sounds like David in verse 8:

“Keep me as the apple of your eye; hide me in the shadow of your wings.” – Psalm 17:8


When I read this today, I could almost hear him saying “daddy” in front of it. We know that Jesus called God “daddy”. If our sins are forgiven, if there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ, why wouldn’t we come to him as our daddy as well?

Monday, December 22, 2008

Psalm 2 - OT Gospel

The Pslams are most often songs of celebration and proclamation. Psalm 2 is most certainly a celebration of the coming Gospel. What an amazing prophetic word of the coming Christ. This week we celebrate Christmas. This is the birth of the King and the one spoken of in Psalm 2.

"I have installed my King on Zion, my holy hill." vs.6


Those in power were certainly threatened by this coming King. We know the story of Herod taking the lives of new born baby boys in hopes of taking the life of Jesus and Pilate conspiring years later as well.

“The kings of the earth take their stand and the rulers gather together against the LORD and against his Anointed One.” vs.2


What an amazing reminder of God’s greatness and protection. Not only did He know, but He knew. He always has and always will. How ridiculous for us to remember it any other way.

“The One enthroned in heaven laughs; the Lord scoffs at them.” vs.4


Every effort of those who rise up against the Lord is in worthless. Even our own plans which stand in opposition of him. I’m reminded today that His plans cannot be thwarted. He will do what He sets out to do. His promises are true. He is able. We can have confidence in this as a child of God. So the rhetorical question is asked…

“Why do the nations conspire and the peoples plot in vain?” vs.1


And the hope we share with the Psalmist…

“I will proclaim the decree of the LORD: He said to me, "You are my Son; today I have become your Father.” vs.7


As John Wesley put it, “There is nothing in this psalm which is not applicable to Christ, but some things which are not all applicable to David.” There are threats denounced against the adversaries of Christ's kingdom, promises made to Christ, and finally counsel given to all:

“Ask of me, and I will make the nations your inheritance, the ends of the earth your possession.” vs.8

“Serve the LORD with fear and rejoice with trembling.” vs.11

“Blessed are all who take refuge in him.” vs.12

Friday, October 24, 2008

Courage

1 Samuel 17 "Courage"

People probably thought David was out of his mind.

Seriously. Scripture tells us Goliath was over 9 feet tall. Think about that for a minute. And of the giants, he was their greatest warrior. And the fight was not over a girl, or pride, a misplaced “mom” joke, or his lunch money it was for an entire nation’s wellbeing. And the fight was to the death.

“He (Goliath) looked David over and saw that he was only a boy… He said to David, "Am I a dog, that you come at me with sticks?" And the Philistine cursed David by his gods. "Come here," he said, "and I'll give your flesh to the birds of the air and the beasts of the field!" – 1 Samuel 17:42-44

Goliath basically said, “Come here boy. I’m gonna give you a spanking”. Yet David took his life. I know it sounds cliché’ but we all have our giants to slay. Here are some thoughts on what we can learn from this story of David:

1. David waited his turn (and was content playing a harp) but rose to the occasion at the right time.
2. David realized it wasn’t his giant to slay it was God’s.
3. Therefore, David acted as if He represented the Lord not himself.
4. However, David stayed true (authentic) to who he was with stones not Saul’s armor.
5. The result gave David a faith that would help him lead a nation.
6. He often remembered (psalms) God’s faithfulness in this moment.

Monday, October 20, 2008

Foolish Acts

As a church planter, I think I have a new and fresh understanding of what it means to live in the “fear of the Lord”. I really don't mean that in an arrogant "knowledge" kind of way... it's really a type of confession. It’s a constant and crazy mix of confidence and intentionality wrapped up in a little bit of insecurity and wonder. And God’s hand or presence being removed is my greatest fear. I guess that’s why my study today in 1 Samuel 13 struck such a chord with me. Two verses stood out like they were written in a different font:

"You acted foolishly," Samuel said. "You have not kept the command the LORD your God gave you; if you had, he would have established your kingdom over Israel for all time. But now your kingdom will not endure; the LORD has sought out a man after his own heart and appointed him leader of his people, because you have not kept the LORD's command." 1 Samuel 13:13-14

What more can you say? There is a ton of power in these two verses. In these words are both found (1) hope and (2) consequence. The hope is that God is not passive... He is not detained... He will not only SEEK out a man after his own heart, but He will find one in David. He'll find it in the least expected: a young shepherd boy. The consequence is that since Saul did not seek God out prior to going to battle or prior to selecting his men, it would not be him labeled as one who sought after God's own heart. He tried... after the fact. He tried to commit to the Lord something he had already done. But it was too late.
So as church leaders our promise of hope and our warning of consequence is this: May we always be those who seek after God's own heart. And may we never venture forward prior to God's leading or void of His way.

Friday, October 17, 2008

Threat v.s. Fact

One of my favorite movies is the 1993 Texas based film “A Perfect World” where Butch Haynes (Kevin Costner) plays an escaped convict from a Huntsville prison who, while stealing a getaway car, ends up taking a young boy hostage and eventually being hunted down by Texas Ranger “Red” Garnett (Clint Eastwood). The whole movie ends up being about Butch’s connection with the kid who is being raised in a home without a father, is oppressed by an overly obsessed “mother hen” mom, and his journey towards “manhood” through Butch’s influence. It’s kind of a like the secular movie version of “Wild at Heart” (I know, seems weird, but stick with me). The whole story is a “let boys be boys, sometimes we gotta show them how to do that, and then give them permission” movie.

Turns out Butch hates his escape partner, Terry, who is quite a weasel… One of my favorite scenes is one where they were driving down the road and Terry mentions his ear still bleeding from something Butch did earlier, he mumbles under his breath to Butch, “If you ever try that again…”

Butch interrupts, “What? You in the middle of threatening me?”

Terry replies from the back seat, “That’s not a threat…” he holds up his gun and cocks it “… that’s a fact.”

Butch leans over the seat and says, “In two seconds I’m gonna break your nose. That’s a threat.” He then grabs the gun from Terry, smacks him straight in the face, and as blood begins streaming out of his nostrils… says, “Now… that’s a fact”.

In verses 24-25 of 1 Samuel 12 it says, “And I will teach you the way that is good and right. But be sure to fear the LORD and serve him faithfully with all your heart; consider what great things he has done for you. Yet if you persist in doing evil, both you and your king will be swept away."

This sounds like a threat. But it’s not. It’s a promise and a fact. Samuel has seen the evidence of God’s hand. He knows that our God does not offer empty threats and promises. Let’s not forget that God was using Samuel in his very own punishment as a poor father. His boys were supposed to be in charge yet because of His neglect, they would lose their influence, and as God put it NEVER be atoned for (1 Samuel 3:14).

Samuel kept his bearing because of "fact". Without it, it seems hard that he would have ever maintained any type of desire to do what God was telling him to do. After such failure in faith, most of us would reject, point the finger, be angry, and say God’s not fair. Samuel’s continuance was in the evidence. It was in the facts. Samuel knew God was God and what He said would happen, would indeed happen.

Samuel said, "It is the LORD who appointed Moses and Aaron and brought your forefathers up out of Egypt. Now then, stand here, because I am going to confront you with evidence before the LORD as to all the righteous acts performed by the LORD for you and your fathers.” – 1 Samuel 12:6-7

He confronted them with all that God had done in the past. He confronted them with evidences of His hand and His faithfulness. He confronted them with the facts.

I’ve always thought it interesting how we go through an experience with God’s obvious hand yet fail to remember the power of His movement down the road. What’s that about? Hindsight is truly 20/20… for a season anyway. We reason away and we forget the significance. Knowing their (and our) nature, God gives them this “promise of fact”. If they remembered and served faithfully, the Lord promised to show the way. If they did not remember what He had done, like Samuel’s boys, they would surely reap what they sowed.

I dunno. Seems to me that God is so very just. The more I know Him and pursue Him, the more I see it. He spoke and it was. Literally. He promises amazing things… honestly, all our heart desires (even the ones we don’t know of). He just asks that we seek Him and His righteousness first.

We just have to remember: The journey is not about the broken nose. The journey is about Glory to Him, and us learning how to be a part of it.

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Leadership 501

That’s right, I just jumped to 501. I don’t think I ever wrote on 201, 301, or 401… they’ve always scared me. But since I’m going to keep it to quoting one of the most highly thought of leaders of our day, and we’ll also see it played out in scripture (1 Samuel 9), I’ll claim this insight for a moment. What we’ll find is that just as history repeats itself, and just as “keep it simple stupid” (K.I.S.S.) seems to work, leadership has a path that actually comes full circle. At it’s highest level comes a simple key: Humility. An amazingly difficult thing for most leaders (including pastors) to have, much less maintain.

I outlined earlier some of what Jim Collins (Built to Last, Good to Great) shared in a recent speech on his thoughts on leadership success and failure. Behind these successes and declines are not only the strategy of a leader, but also the capacity of a leader. The focus of Jim’s thoughts, are essentially about leadership capability. He questions the thought we typically have that either leadership exists or it doesn’t. Instead he offers the idea that leadership has levels.

Here’s what Collins said:

“In general I have had a bias against a CEO-centric view of the world. Leadership answers often strike me as over simplistic and in danger of covering up too many variables. If a company does really well we say it was great leadership; if it doesn't do well we say the leadership wasn't as great as we thought.”

“That eventually led to the idea that leadership is an evolving series of capabilities and levels of maturity. So it's not a leadership or not question, it's a "what stage of leadership" question – and what level of maturity are you.”

So what is a level 5 leader? Glad you asked. First of all, a level 5 is to be thought of as the highest level of leadership possible (at least for today). It’s characterized by a humble “concern for the organization and for IT’S success rather than for one’s own riches and personal renown.”

It almost seems counter-intuitive that humility would be the key trait for such high capacity leadership, and that’s exactly what Jim thought during his team’s research. “The Level 5 Leadership finding, which came out in Good to Great, was not what I expected to find.

But it’s what he found.

Level 5 leadership challenges the assumption that transforming organizations from good to great requires larger-than-life-leaders. The findings appear to signal a shift of emphasis away from the hero to the anti-hero. According to Collins, humility is a key ingredient of Level 5 leadership. His simple formula is Humility + Will = Level 5. "Level 5 leaders are a study in duality", notes Collins, "modest and willful, shy and fearless."

Essentially he’s saying a level 5 leader finishes strong and with a legacy of humility.

So let’s go to the Bible and take a look at Saul for a moment. Scripture tells us he was built for the role of leader. In fact 1 Samuel 9:2 says Saul was “an impressive young man without equal.” Yet there was something special about Saul. He had everything going for him and every right to be prideful, yet when he was called out by Samuel, he struck a posture of humility. Look how he responded:

Saul answered, “But am I not a Benjamite, from the smallest tribe of Israel, and is not my clan the least of all the clans of the tribe of Benjamin? Why do you say such a thing to me?” (1 Sam 9:21)

This posture wasn’t new to Saul. Earlier in the story when he was about to give up, he gave ear to the counsel of his servant who not only encouraged him (vs. 6-8), but also gave him direction (led upward). This highlights another key benefit from humility, a willingness to listen to those around you. Collins said recently that great leaders constantly ask what our “question to answer” ratio is, and is constantly seeking ways to ask more questions. The reason? So we can hear the answers we might not normally come up with.

I have a friend who has seen some amazing professional success in the business world who said that the trend in companies unable to make it to the next level is the CEO or key leadership team’s attitude toward everyone else in the company or their competitors. He said, “When you find yourself in a position where you feel constantly that you’re surrounded by idiots and you’re the only one who knows what to do, beware. You’re about to take the fall. You’ll find soon that you’re the idiot. And you think too highly of yourself.”

Bottom line, in the beginning, Saul had an amazing personal mixture of humility and confidence. From level 1 through level 5, Humility is the key in keeping confidence from becoming arrogance and pride. And confidence is key. It’s the fuel for the “Will” in the “Humility + Will = Level 5” equation.

Another friend of mine who is a West Point grad, ex-Special Operations officer, and now owns a management consulting company in Denver wrote the following about this confidence in leadership as seen through 1 Samuel: “Confidence is a tricky character trait for a leader. Too much can make them prone to rash and arrogant decisions. Too little can leave them timid and passive. In either case, too much or too little, the end result can be a leader who is too selfish to lead effectively. They are so focused on their own strengths or inadequacies that they miss the power of their team and God’s hand in their work. In recent chapters we saw the Israelites with too much confidence when they carried the ark into battle against the Philistines. And we also saw them with too little confidence in believing they needed a king to be like the nations around them. Both results were due to having poor relationships with God, and thus, a poor understanding of their power and security with Him. When we truly know God we know who WE are in Him. This appropriately sets our confidence. We understand that we can “do all things through Him who gives me strength”, but we counter that with knowing that He has to be a part of any venture for us to succeed, no matter how small. So, while we can do all things through God, we can’t do anything we want through God. Confirming that God is leading gives us all the confidence we need.”

So why use the example of Saul? While he started as an excellent candidate for a level 5 leader, he ended up being an excellent example of someone who failed to reach it.

The problem is that power corrupts. That’s in the bible. Look it up. So humility at this level of success and influence is not only rare, but possibly our greatest mountain to climb.

As church leaders, we must all be aware and beware. We know how the story of Saul ends. After leading as King for 42 years, Saul ends up going crazy and chasing David all over the place. This is a huge reminder to me at any level of leading that might lead to seasons of “success”: We must constantly check ourselves, our motives, and how they fit with God’s true vision. We must maintain the correct posture, create the right processes, and place the right people in right positions to help us keep focused on His calling. We have to protect ourselves from ourselves as we remember that this is not about us.

This is getting long. Officially, the BLOG ends here.

Unless you want to keep reading for part #2… in that case, here is a furthering thought on Saul’s humility and the tragedy that follows. It comes from an email I got from a friend this morning (at 5:15am) that sits on my board at Austin New Church. He’s an incredibly insightful leader whose current role is Executive VP of Global Services for a company headquartered here in Austin. The only thing bigger than his insight is his track record and professional accomplishments… check out what he said about Saul.

“Saul starts with the admirable trait of humility which leaves him as he becomes king. He has all the traits that Israel wants in a king, he is taller than most, good looking and strong and comes from a prominent family. Saul is like some of the men and women in this world that we see attain fame, fortune and glamour only to fall from grace with a character flaw. In some ways Saul is a tragic hero, the main character in a tragedy who makes an error in his actions that leads to his downfall. Some characteristics about a tragic hero include:

- The hero is led to his downfall due to hubris, or excessive pride.
- The hero discovers his fate by his own actions, not by things happening to him.
- The hero sees and understands his doom, and that his fate was revealed by his own actions.
- The hero is physically or spiritually wounded by his experiences, often resulting in his death.
- The hero is often a king or leader of men, so that his people experience his fall with him.
- The hero learns something from his mistake.
- The hero is faced with a serious decision.
- The suffering of the hero is meaningful.

God why use Saul? Why use a tragic hero and not raise up another more deserving more righteous man? God raised up many to distinction who were less deserving than others were. We cannot figure out all of God’s reasons for raising one over another in this world. Many of these reasons are contained in the unsearchable wisdom of God. What we should never do is assume that just because God is using a man, that he deserves it. And more importantly we should not somehow see ourselves as less than one who God chooses to raise up by the scorecard of this world. Once we do this, we start imitating the characteristics that make these people tragic heroes. For all are human, and all have a flaw, the more the spotlight of the world pierces us, the more our flaw becomes known. The only hero who is not tragic (in the literary definition) is the Son.”

Wow. How ‘bout that with your morning coffee?

Monday, October 13, 2008

Faithful to the Promise

The first time I ever heard of Steven Furtick was last Thursday. The timing was right before he was to go on stage at Catalyst, a Cultural Leadership Conference in Atlanta, Georgia. Craig Groeschel introduced him as a 28 year old who started a church in Charlotte, North Carolina... and in the following year or two it grew to over 5000 people.

So, of course, I wanted to hate him. No one can do that unless they sold their soul to the devil, right? Or even worse... compromised the message of the gospel. Surely! Right?

But if I heard them right, they said that through their ministry over 1000 people were baptized in the last year. Kinda killed the "transfer growth" theory. Then they mentioned other ridiculous things that were happening there which honestly, made me jealous to the core (not really, okay kinda) ... so I just decided to wait and cast judgment after he took the stage.

Then He took the stage. Yup, I hate him. He had on a sweet jacket. Jeans were suspect. bleached and spiked hair. I mean, who does this guy think he's fooling? We're veterans for crying out loud and this guy is a kid (okay, I got him by 8 years, can I say that?) Worse yet, he kinda has that side-ways Matt Damon smirk.

And He started talking. What first looked like arrogance quickly sifted into the confidence of a strong leader. He was brilliant. Anointed even. And he moved me to the core. There were some fairly simple thoughts shared. But the Spirit and energy was fresh and it was real. If anything... as a church planter... I was encouraged. I was also reminded of the journey... and of hope.

Here's my deal: It takes all kinds. Whether that manifests itself as a rapid growing church or one that gives away more than it keeps... as long as Jesus and those that don't know Him is center... whether that's attractional, seeker, missional, whatever... I pray we all use our gifts and CALLING in the way God intended. On this day I was encouraged... a gift that I don't even know if Steven has.

Thanks Steven. Good stuff.

Some quotes…

· Between the promise of God and the pay-off is the process.

· When you are struggling through what seems insignificant to you, hang on to the promise of God.

· Be faithful in the process. Don’t get your eyes on the “big” thing or the “successful” place—just be faithful in the process.

· After David was anointed, where did he go? Back to the fields to be faithful in his role as a shepherd boy.

· There’s got to be more to life than putting money in a 401, buying a boat, and then dying.

· Be faithful. Be faithful Be faithful.

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

What about Women

Women are an amazing gift from God. If we see them as anything less, we are idiots. Women are a critical part of not only our lives, but also the church. It’s been that way from the beginning. Their commitment, intuition, and influence are at times, simply unparalleled. It’s a shame when we think of them as anything less than those who “together built up the house of Israel.” I can’t help but hear the story of Ruth and Naomi and think about the impact women of the world, from Phoebe of the NT to Mother Teresa. God has used their faith to radically impact the Church as we know it.

“Then the elders and all those at the gate said, "We are witnesses. May the LORD make the woman who is coming into your home like Rachel and Leah, who together built up the house of Israel.” – Ruth 4:11

And what about our own “personal” world? If it wasn’t for the faith of my Mom, I don’t know where I’d be. If it wasn’t for the faith of my wife… geeze, I can’t even imagine.

So today, in a world that de-values the role of women… I simply celebrate them. I celebrate and thank God for their ministry. I’m thankful for my wife Jen, who followed God’s calling and found His favor as an author and speaker. I pick on her sometimes and call her “Jen Hatmaker .com” (especially when she’s getting bossy). But I’m truly thankful for her ministry and all she’s contributed to my life and ministry. She’s more than a compliment to me, she’s the perfect gift.

Fella’s out there… you hear me?

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Joshua 14 – “Number Two”

Joshua 14 – Brandon Hatmaker “Number Two”
Tuesday, August 12th, 2008

“Then Joshua blessed Caleb son of Jephunneh and gave him Hebron as his inheritance. So Hebron has belonged to Caleb son of Jephunneh the Kenizzite ever since, because he followed the LORD, the God of Israel, wholeheartedly. Then the land had rest from war.” – Joshua 14:13-15

After a 45 year journey, mostly riddled with battle, Caleb was finally given his inheritance. He himself said that at 85 years old that he was, “still as strong today” as the day Moses sent him out. He was willing and capable for more, but he was ready for a home. He asked for it, and it was granted. It was his time.

“Then the land had rest from war.”

That final verse is a great verse. Makes me think of what it feels like when I come home from a long trip. There is nothing quite like walking into your own house, sleeping in your own bed, eating your own food, and watching your children play in familiar places not worried if they’ll break someone else’s rules or worse, their stuff.

This was a huge blessing and reward for Caleb’s season of courage, confidence, and faithfulness. He did everything the Lord asked of him. He did everything Joshua, who was once just a fellow spy, asked of Him. He never complained about not being the number one guy. He just played his role. And when his time came, he was blessed, and his request was granted… it was granted by God's provision, it was promised by Moses, and it was blessed by Joshua.

As a Pastor, I’m humbled by the role I get to play in this journey. But I’m even more humbled by the amazing team of guys God has brought us. From an amazing staff who are also some of my best friends, to a faithful team of lay leaders who have become the same, I’m thankful for their work, their courage, their confidence, and for their faithfulness.

So I’ll write this directly to them as a prayer of blessing:

I pray that each of you find “rest” from war. I pray that you each experience reward for your faithfulness. I pray that your lives are laced with amazing ministry opportunities and are filled with joy, whether it’s at Austin New Church, through Austin New Church, or wherever you may be called. Thank you, not only “that” you serve, but also for “how” you serve.